This
commandment for Israel concerned any kind of sexual
immorality: fornication—sex between unmarried men and
women; adultery—sex between a married person or persons
and someone who is not their spouse; incest—sex between
immediate family members; rape—the forced sexual assault
of an individual; sodomy, homosexuality, lesbianism—sex
between members of the same sex; bestiality—sex between
a man or woman and an animal; whoredom—sex that is
solicited for money or other favors; uncleanness—unclean
acts of sex, even between a married couple. It also
included acts of immorality that did not include
intercourse—nakedness between non-married people or lewd
behavior. God also forbad the marriage between the
children of Israel and the heathen people around them.
Although God created man with sexual desires and as the
means for propagating the human race, He also placed
boundaries that forbid casual sex, recreational sex, or
any sexual acts not within marriage. Because sex outside
of Biblical marriage can be such a devastating sin to a
person and society, God made this a sin punishable by
death. There were, however, other judgments besides
stoning for those sexual offenses that were less
damning—such as a single man and woman involved in
fornication would be forced to marry one another. All of
the various sexual laws of the Old Testament for Israel
were God’s means for preserving their society and to
keep it from self-destruction.
Exo 20:14 Thou shalt not commit adultery.
Lev 20:10 And the man that committeth adultery with
another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery
with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the
adulteress shall surely be put to death.
11 And the man that lieth with his father's wife hath
uncovered his father's nakedness: both of them shall
surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon
them.
12 And if a man lie with his daughter in law, both of
them shall surely be put to death: they have wrought
confusion; their blood shall be upon them.
13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a
woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they
shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be
upon them.
14 And if a man take a wife and her mother, it is
wickedness: they shall be burnt with fire, both he and
they; that there be no wickedness among you.
15 And if a man lie with a beast, he shall surely be
put to death: and ye shall slay the beast.
16 And if a woman approach unto any beast, and lie
down thereto, thou shalt kill the woman, and the beast:
they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall
be upon them.
17 And if a man shall take his sister, his father's
daughter, or his mother's daughter, and see her
nakedness, and she see his nakedness; it is a wicked
thing; and they shall be cut off in the sight of
their people: he hath uncovered his sister's nakedness;
he shall bear his iniquity.
18 And if a man shall lie with a woman having her
sickness, and shall uncover her nakedness; he hath
discovered her fountain, and she hath uncovered the
fountain of her blood: and both of them shall be cut off
from among their people.
Lev 19:29 Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause
her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and
the land become full of wickedness.
Deu 7:1 When the LORD thy God shall bring thee into the
land whither thou goest to possess it, and hath cast out
many nations before thee, the Hittites, and the
Girgashites, and the Amorites, and the Canaanites, and
the Perizzites, and the Hivites, and the Jebusites,
seven nations greater and mightier than thou;
2 And when the LORD thy God shall deliver them before
thee; thou shalt smite them, and utterly destroy them;
thou shalt make no covenant with them, nor shew mercy
unto them:
3 Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy
daughter thou shalt not give unto his son, nor his
daughter shalt thou take unto thy son.
4 For they will turn away thy son from following me,
that they may serve other gods: so will the anger of the
LORD be kindled against you, and destroy thee suddenly.
Exo 22:16 And if a man entice a maid that is not
betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her
to be his wife.
17 If her father utterly refuse to give her unto him, he
shall pay money according to the dowry of virgins.
In
the New Testament we also see a further broadening of
the moral principles behind this law. Jesus taught that
adultery could be committed in the heart of a man or
woman even without any outward sexual act. Society, led
by the lustful desires of man’s wicked heart, has opened
the flood gates for this kind of sin. Pornography of
every kind has invaded the world through books,
magazines, videos, computers, and television. So-called
soft-porn has been made acceptable to many in the
offerings of romance novels, television shows, music
videos, video games, mainstream magazines, and
advertising. We have become inundated by the bombardment
of impure sexual images and thoughts. Sexual enticements
are feed to our children in school, on prime-time
television, and in the movies. The sin of adultery is
now scoffed at, and fornication is even promoted as
being healthy. Those who promote abstinence are
ridiculed, and those who promote free-sex and infidelity
are the heroes of our youth. Even religious and
governmental leaders at all levels have promoted this
lifestyle by their examples and legislation. Man’s
abandonment of the moral teachings from the Bible is
beginning to take a devastating toll upon the human
race. Mankind has sown the wind, and we are starting to
reap the whirlwind. Divorce, broken homes, illegitimate
children, and sexual diseases have been exacting a
horrible price upon modern society.
Matt 5:27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old
time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a
woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her
already in his heart.
Hos 8:7 For they have sown the wind, and they shall
reap the whirlwind: it hath no stalk: the bud shall
yield no meal: if so be it yield, the strangers shall
swallow it up.
Christian liberty, of course, does not excuse a child of
God from this kind of sin. God’s children are reminded
that “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed
undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will
judge.” Even our sanction to serve God hinges upon
our sexual purity. The Apostle Paul, in dealing with the
Corinthian church, had to rebuke their attitude for this
kind of liberality. This church had so promoted the
freedom of Christ that they allowed every kind of sin to
invade their assembly. Their witness to the outside
world was making a mockery of Christ and what He came to
do—“save His people from their sins.”
Heb 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed
undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will
judge.
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Cor 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth
is without the body; but he that commiteth fornication
sinneth against his own body.
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the
Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye
are not your own?
20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify
God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.
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Thes 4:3 For this is the will of God, even your
sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
4 That every one of you should know how to possess his
vessel in sanctification and honour;
5 Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles
which know not God:
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Cor 5:1 It is reported commonly that there is
fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so
much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have
his father's wife.
2 And ye are puffed up, and have not rather
mourned, that he that hath done this deed might be taken
away from among you.
3 For I verily, as absent in body, but present in
spirit, have judged already, as though I were present,
concerning him that hath so done this deed,
4 In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are
gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our
Lord Jesus Christ,
5 To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction
of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of
the Lord Jesus.
Matt 1:21 And she shall bring forth a son, and thou
shalt call his name JESUS: for he shall save his
people from their sins.
As
with all the commandments, there is also a deeper
meaning to those in Christ. In a natural sense, what
does the act of adultery do to the one we sin
against—our spouse? In going outside of marriage to find
sexual gratification we are telling our marriage partner
that our union with them is secondary to our desires; we
are implying that we are not satisfied with the love we
receive from them; and we are denying them the rightful
benefit of having their desires met. We also bring into
the marriage bed uncleanness, disease, and the
possibility of having children other than our spouse’s.
As Christians we commit the same kind of offences
against our Lord. We are the bride of Christ. We have
become one with Christ by the indwelling Holy Spirit. He
deserves the same kind of fidelity to Him that we show
to our natural mates. Christians like to say that God is
first in their lives; and that gives them an avenue to do
other things which they find pleasure in. What if we
said to our spouse ‘You are number one in my life,
but I also desire to mate with other sexual partners.’
Or ‘You are first in my life, but I also have my
work, the bowling league on Monday, the golf league on
Tuesday, the softball team on Wednesday, gym night on
Thursday, Friday night cards with my friends, my hunting
and fishing on the weekends, and other activities that
don’t really involve you.’ Would that be acceptable
to the one we have committed ourselves to love and to
cherish?—no, and neither is it to Christ. We commit
spiritual adultery when we give our affections, time,
and talents to the world or any other god or idol
besides Christ. Everything we do should be with His
honor and glory in mind. Our families, our jobs, our
recreation, how we spend our time and money or use our
talents, should all be an expression of our love and
devotion to Him. He knows we have obligations to our
families, and we also have needs and proper desires. Our
love for Him is what makes all other relationships and
occupations of our time meaningful and fulfilling. Those
who begin to fall out of love for Christ and instead
give their affections to the world are breaking this
commandment of grace. Furthermore, like a jealous
husband, Christ will chasten His bride to return to Him.
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Cor 11:2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy:
for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may
present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.
Rom 7:4 Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead
to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be
married to another, even to him who is raised from the
dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God.
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Cor 6:15 Know ye not that your bodies are the members
of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ,
and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an
harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one
flesh.
17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
Jam 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not
that the friendship of the world is enmity with God?
whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the
enemy of God.
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John 2:15 Love not the world, neither the things that
are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of
the Father is not in him.
16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh,
and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not
of the Father, but is of the world.
Rev 2:1 Unto the angel of the church of Ephesus write;
These things saith he that holdeth the seven stars in
his right hand, who walketh in the midst of the seven
golden candlesticks;
2 I know thy works, and thy labour, and thy patience,
and how thou canst not bear them which are evil: and
thou hast tried them which say they are apostles, and
are not, and hast found them liars:
3 And hast borne, and hast patience, and for my name's
sake hast laboured, and hast not fainted.
4 Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because
thou hast left thy first love.
Rev 3:14 And unto the angel of the church of the
Laodiceans write; These things saith the Amen, the
faithful and true witness, the beginning of the creation
of God;
15 I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot:
I would thou wert cold or hot.
16 So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither
cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth.
17 Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with
goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that
thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind,
and naked:
18 I counsel thee to buy of me gold tried in the fire,
that thou mayest be rich; and white raiment, that thou
mayest be clothed, and that the shame of thy nakedness
do not appear; and anoint thine eyes with eyesalve, that
thou mayest see.
19 As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be
zealous therefore, and repent.